What people experience during those three days

When Nancy and I go into a prison we are supported by our many faithful prayer partners and we see and feel the impact of their prayers. Our supporters allow us to supply each prison (at no profit) with at least 20 books for their dorm libraries and a workbook for each person who takes the course.   Those who finish the course receive a certificate of completion that is respected by court judges and the probation system.

The premise of this course is that God’s love is the answer to human anger. In the Bible, God compares His anger with His love.  He is slow to anger and abounds in love.  Experiencing the love of God is the key. During those three days. Nancy and I pray and commit ourselves to demonstrate and model God’s love and forgiveness the best we can.  We treat each person with dignity and respect. We care for them and look at each one in the eye.  We relax and have fun and take long breaks to mingle and get to know them. We hear their story and pray for many of them and build a positive relationship within the boundaries of TDCJ requirements.

God’s love makes His wisdom exclusive and elite. Understanding the love of God is essential to reasoning with God’s wisdom.  All eyes are on Him. His infinite knowledge, strong character, patience, and compassion are the centerpiece of the study. We lead them to personally receive God’s love and forgiveness through Jesus Christ. This provides the foundation for change. Only when they experience the love of God, can they love God in return. For “we love Him because He first loved us.”  1 John 4:19.

Early on, we seek to answer some common misconceptions about God’s temperament because so many use those misconceptions to support their anger.  For example, many justify their anger because they view God as an angry and wrathful God. If God lashes back, then we can, too. But this is not what the Bible teaches and we clear this and many other false assumptions about God by looking at the intentional small print in the Biblical text. Many are surprised to discover there are clearly defined truths about God’s wrath and judgment. We learn the wisdom of God’s judgments and why God’s wrath is rarely demonstrated throughout history.  The Bible is explicit that God withholds His wrath until the great day of wrath and the Great White Throne Judgment. Until then, God is committed to reaching men with His goodness, longsuffering, and unconditional love.

This study seeks to convince men of God’s goodness and that He overcomes evil with good. He intervenes in judgment only when men’s iniquities are full and God declares them to be ripe for judgment, not when we think they are ripe. In most instances, God allows great evils in each generation so men can see the fruit of those beliefs and ideologies that support such iniquities. If He destroyed evil men then who could stand before God. When we understand God’s love and respect for us, then we are willing to trust him and show Him respect.   We believe that love and respect for God is the beginning of life-change.

We argue that human anger, when carried out, is never righteous. Only God’s anger can be righteous because only He can perfectly carry it out. This truth is clearly supported throughout scripture. Though God respects our anger and it can begin for righteous reasons, human anger leads to “unrighteous” behavior. God calls us to understand the destructive path of our anger and how the expression of anger allows our human condition to worsen. It is God’s love that inspires men to relent from doing harm to their perpetrators. Yes, the law is God’s avenger of wrath and its punishments are vital to safeguard humanity and fetter the inherent evils of society. Yes, honest self-defense is never condemned in the Bible; and yes, people do reap what they sow; and yes, God does intervene particularly in the agendas of violent and threatening men.  But, He is careful to instruct His people to be humble and patient in the face of their perpetrators, to relent of their vengeful attitude, and to overcome evil with good.  God does use sarcasm but is never hateful, rude, or disrespectful to the perpetrator. It is for God and our laws, not individuals to punish the guilty. In His own words, God declares:  “The LORD is slow to anger, abounding in love, forgiving sin and rebellion… Numbers 14:18

‘As I live,’ says the Lord GOD, ‘I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, O house of Israel?’  Ezekiel 33:11

This compelling theological approach clarifies God’s goodness and concern for all men. God pleads with men to accept His mercy and TURN, redirecting them onto His wise path with a promise of a better future. This renewed faith produces personal initiative that carries them forward. At this point, the study moves from theory to practice, from doctrine to doing. God’s Word is robust with scripture that dictates trustworthy steps of practical application.  God has much to counsel regarding the management of our emotions and we have much to obey.  His wise counsel throughout the scriptures is powerfully convincing.

Below is the content of this extensive study:

Chapter 1 – God’s Anger

~The Sacred Emotion

Chapter 2 – Righteous Anger

~Delivered to the Torturers

Chapter 3 – Self-Righteous Anger

~Men’s Malicious Millstones

Chapter 5 – Replicated Anger

~Stubborn Anger

~Beware Your Iniquities

Chapter 6 – Violent Anger

~Anger and Alcohol

~Submission to Governing Authorities

Chapter 7 – Ruling Anger

~Overlooking Transgressions

Chapter 8 – Countering Anger

~Calming the Spousal Storm

~Reconciling Transgressions

Chapter 9 – Silencing Anger

~Soothing Angry Feelings

Chapter 10 – Forsaking Anger

~Growing Better, Not Bitter

Chapter 11 – Replacing Anger

~Living a God-Governed Life

This is a lengthy course for good reason.  Habitual anger is strong and deeply rooted. It requires every fetter and we must carefully attend to the many indispensable truths in God’s Word. This course will feed you a royal diet of God’s Word. Communicating the ancient story line that will be new to most people.
God’s Word is good and convincing seed.  He shines a light on our faulty belief systems. Yes, we need answers for our theological questions, must importantly we need a strong foundation in Jesus Christ. Prisons are filled with false ideologies, but God’s Word reduces them to rubble. So come and savor every chapter and rejoice in God’s winning and loving wisdom.
This course is aimed at helping those who have suffered reproach from their anger or violent behavior. God takes the offender by the hand and helps them to demonstrate a new consistent temperament. The violent troublemaker can become a peacemaker in their homes and the streets. The unruly can become an ambassador for the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
People learn to diagnose their triggers and deny their habitually destructive emotions. The message is to exert your will over your anger. To be a DOER, not a deceived “hearer only” that grows robust in practical obedience to God’s Word.
I believe the teaching on DISCRETION to be a pivotal lesson in the course. It provides a clear, practical, and realistic means of changing the habitual, emotional responses that led to their ruin. It allows people to put into practice all they have learned. As a disciple (a learner) the participant sets the goal of personal growth (always getting better) continually developing a plan to execute for next offense until men leave their cells and return home to their wives and children in submission to God.
At the end of the course, the participant will proudly receive their diploma. In the Units, These have always been times of great elation and celebration.
The reason I am confident of the impact of this course is due to the teaching of is God’s counsel, not mans counsel. Taking Anger Seriously points men to a faithful God who has the answer to all our evils. God can produce life change and turn the tide of violent and threatening behavior.